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Post by hosty on Oct 5, 2015 22:25:39 GMT
Hi there,
I will be hosting my first guest this weekend. She booked instantly (I have already decided against that and turned it off) for herself and a guest. Right when she booked, I reached out to her to ask the name of her guest, she just said that the guest was a student. I really dont care if it is a male or female, not her parent. I would just like to know who is coming to my home. So I asked her again for the name of her guest and whether her guest was male or female. She finally told me the name of her guest, a Korean name, I still dont know if it is a man or woman! Why so evasive?? I had also asked her what time she planned to check out ( check out is noon) because I have another guest arriving on her check out date. She said 7pm! So I reminder her her of the check out time and she asked if she could leave her bags here in the morning and come back for them. I said OK but hig inconvenience as I have a tiny apt and will have to figure out where to keep them so they are not in way of new guest.
Now a few days later I just asked her when she will arrive to my place. She said 10am. Check in is after 3pm! I dont have anyone before her so I guess I will accommodate again, but wow. Any advice would be appreciated...
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Post by High Priestess on Oct 5, 2015 23:27:46 GMT
HI hosty Sorry to hear you are having these problems so soon in your hosting career! It happens! First, I am glad you turned off instant book. That will help a lot, since as you start hosting there are a lot of things to learn, there is a learning curve, and you want to be able to have time to learn, which instant book does not allow very well. There are two ways to respond to your question -- the first is as far as advice about what to do with this current situation, the second is as far as advice for the future. (1) For this situation: you do not need to accomodate someone who wants to check out late, check in early, leave luggage after checking out, or get an "Exception" to any of your house rules. One of the most important parts about hosting, which can be difficult to learn and to do for many, is to keep your boundaries. To stay firm about your rules and boundaries and avoid making exceptions or accomodating guests beyond what you are comfortable with. It is not too late to tell this guest that you won't be able to allow them to leave their luggage after check out, and certainly that they cannot check in before 3pm if that is stated on your house rules/listing description. Keeping your boundaries means you won't be resentful about the guest during the reservation or after, which is important. (2)For the future -- Get set with a strong set of house rules, and read tips for new hosts and red flags for hosts. ANy guest should be able to tell you the FULL NAME and CONTACT INFO for every single person who will be staying at your home. I STRONGLY recommend that you also do not allow guests to bring any others to your home who have not been named in advance and paid for in advance, eg, no visitors, no friends, nobody extra, not even for a few minutes. THis can help avoid some big problems. When a guest inquires, make sure they have read the house rules and understand check in and check out time. You might state that leaving luggage after check out is something guest needs to ask you about in advance, that you can sometimes but not always accomodate this and guest should not presume they will be able to do this. See my tips for new hosts here: globalhosting.freeforums.net/thread/456/tips-new-hostsSee my red flags for hosts here: globalhosting.freeforums.net/thread/455/red-flags-hostsSee my extensive list of house rules here: globalhosting.freeforums.net/thread/366/house-rules-long-comprehensiveOthers may be able to share their house rules with you -- you needn't start with such a long list, but this may help give you ideas of the kinds of things that need to be addressed at times with guests.
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Post by carolyn on Oct 5, 2015 23:36:37 GMT
Hi Hosty! I recommend that you do NOT accommodate her on an early check-in. Your instincts are correct; she is already a bit of a problem guest, being evasive and not bothering to note your check-in and check-out times. It sounds like she's trying to take advantage of you, and she will only ask for more favors and accommodations if you give in to her requests.
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Post by queenie&ted on Oct 6, 2015 1:29:53 GMT
I agree with the above about not accommodating the early check-in. Or holding her luggage after check-out if you do not have the space. Instant Book does not mean you are a valet service!
I require the name of each person coming on a reservation. No name, no booking. It's in my house rules that no strangers are allowed on my property. Strangers are defined as people whose name is not on the original booking. I would insist on the name of her traveling companion. Tell her that if she does not provide the information you request, that you may have to cancel the reservation. Then stick to it. Airbnb is already based primarily on trust between hosts and guests. She needs to live up to her part of that relationship.
Always follow your instincts. If someone is this needy before arrival, you can bet it's only the beginning!
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Post by Andrew on Oct 11, 2015 16:57:09 GMT
If the guest wants to come at 10am I would tell them fine but I wont' be there, you will have to wait a few hours on my front porch until I get there.
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Post by queenie&ted on Oct 12, 2015 12:53:07 GMT
I wouldn't want someone loitering on my porch or in my yard for 3-4 hours! Not only is that creepy, but guaranteed the guest nails you with a "1" for Arrival!
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Post by High Priestess on Oct 12, 2015 18:37:34 GMT
Queenie, I think what Suzanne probably meant (knowing Suzanne!) was that if she had her check in time set at a specific time, like 3pm, she would not be agreeable to showing up early to letting guests in. I think her proposed comment to the guest was meant to emphasize this point with the guest and suggest to them that there would be no point in them showing up early, because they would not be let in.
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