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Post by High Priestess on Jun 24, 2016 3:18:03 GMT
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Post by CC on Jun 24, 2016 4:21:11 GMT
Of course I wouldn't host such a setup. What to say to host? Isn't there anything anymore that simply goes without saying?
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Post by High Priestess on Jun 24, 2016 4:29:01 GMT
I wouldn't host them either -- and my reasoning would be not only my own uneasiness with the setup, but also concern about what my other guest might think. As I would likely have another guest, in another room, who would see that these two were staying in a room with one bed. In all things having to do with accepting a guest I have to think about what concerns or impacts upon any other guest I may have at the same time.
The reason why I thought this was always an interesting question, this type of scenario, is that every time I recall that this question was asked, there would be host who would point out that in some parts of the world or some cultures there would be little or no concern over this kind of arrangement. So I always thought it was interesting to hear from someone who was from or knew of a culture where that was the case.
In my own culture though, this is, as the OP said, a "creepy" situation and one I and many other hosts would avoid.
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Post by lambada on Jun 24, 2016 15:21:22 GMT
I have to say, it IS a cultural thing, at least one that I grew up in. Not sure if I'd feel comfortable sleeping with any of my parents in my teenage years, but that's probably because I was never close to them. But not that long ago, I still shared a bed with my female friend or my sister - we were both in our late 30's. But much of the culture now has worn off of me. I can't imagine sharing a bed with anyone other my spouse. I'm sure my siblings (again, all in their 40's now) are still ok sharing bed with each other tho.
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Post by Inanna (Shaun) on Jun 25, 2016 4:39:56 GMT
I would not accept. How would I know thst the girl was his daughter?
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